I never have to question my place in his life. But you can legit just leave this dude. By simply expressing your concerns to him your problem can be solved or at the very least be addressed. On the basis of whatever youve written, it is super weird. Maybe youre considering too much of the bad instead of recognizing the good. Maybe you're a little stressed out about it and wonder if you're being too sensitive. Never give an ultimatum. What you have explained is some weird behaviour coming from your boyfriend. Honestly I think you can save your breath on this one. Where did she say they were mean to her your advice is the worst i have ever seen, "My boyfriend then insults me to try to be funny and she laughs and it's just very hurtful". I was starting to get into yoga myself, then I went into his room and I saw a brand new yoga mat! Yes! But its also important to look at what not to do. Well, first of all, don't freak out! In the end, it's just one of those things in relationships. After all, when he's with his friends, he wants to relax and enjoy their company; starting an argument is probably the last thing on his mind. First off, it might help you to know that it's important to give him space during outings and time with his friendsso he has the opportunity to show them who he is without having to worry about what they think of you. As their friend only, it was cool with me, but neither of them could ever successfully date anyone. Its getting to the point where I dont even want to go over. I have a graduate degree in Psychology and Ive spent the last 15 years reading and studying all I can about human psychology and practical ways to hack our mindsets. we had thrown a party and the three of us were hanging out and he was really drunk and sort of uncomfortable, and he turned to me and said "I just need to be around [sister] right now" to sort of shoo me away- he wasn't really being rude, but it was quite hurtful. Hi everyone! I couldn't believe he was going to surprise me with a gift because he never did before, and I thought it was so thoughtful because I hadn't bought a yoga mat yet. I had a boyfriend, my brother didnt have anyone at the time. Second this for sure. Don't be with someone who is going to be mean to you to impress others, regardless of who they are. He might have some legit points to note, or you might understand it is time to move on! True love is when two people support each other through thick and thin. However, I have a hunch that he will tell you, you are being irrational and that's his sister and he will probably get mad. Have you actually ever talked to your bf about this? If my gf was super close to her sister i wouldnt care lol. I know its incredibly tempting if your boyfriend is ignoring you to meet fire with fire. Op doesn't have an issue with her bf being close with his sister.

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