I usually just say Im doing laundry. That is AMAZING and I love Gladys (and you) and that is going directly into my repertoire for Dealing With Those Extroverts. That! and she looked really pissed off, and I worried that maybe it sounded like I was looking for an excuse, any excuse, to get out of whatever she was proposing. I understand commenters who dont see this question as anything more than polite small talk. @freyasacksen I have a friend who will almost always respond with, Still alive. Always true. "Weekends are days to refuel your soul and to be grateful for the blessings that you have." - Anonymous 2. This might just be a difference in communication styles. Where I live, in Sweden, you can ask your family, friends, coworkers etc How are you? and the reply would typically be somewhere between Its good and Im a litte tired because the baby has a cold, but otherwise things are good, but never Kind of bad, my depression is making life really dark right now (at least not when used as a small-talk question). Have a very happy weekend! I dont find it weird, I think its just whiteness and the safest thing to do is presume white people are going to be like this to some extent, until they prove otherwise. Helen Huntingdon mentioned interruptingI just want to say, thats a helluva an assumption. That wasnt an assumption it came directly from what you posted about deciding to take her leisure time. Then Ill say Whats up? or Whats going on then? or What did you have in mind?. Theyre private and you dont need to know them. LW, one of the things you could do is take a hobby (or pretend to) and have that as your backup plans. What are you doing for dinner? Can I let you know for sure tomorrow?. But really those friends should elaborate: What are you doing this weekend? A party people pop quiz so to speak. If its not something Im into, I feel pressure to say yes because she knows Im not busy. Are you busy? Culture or not, Im very sympathetic to people who have a hard time saying no, since that used to be me. Happy Weekend Wishes, Messages and Quotes - WishesMsg Which I learned is a great policy to do with favor sharks. I am a pessimist, so I assume I am pissing someone off if theres the slightest ambiguity in communication. friend/person/both: Im in the worst fucking mood and heres why. Who on earth does #4, besides a small boy under 6? 96 views, 2 likes, 0 loves, 0 comments, 2 shares, Facebook Watch Videos from J.Cano: Law & Order: SVU - Best Episode I have a feeling my check liver light will come on this weekend. If you follow through with people you actually want to see (as in, Can I let you know tomorrow? = You actually let them know one way or another tomorrow), you arent being a jerk by not responding immediately to their questions or invitations, and you dont owe a full accounting of your time.

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